Counselling for Carers
Dealing with Cancer

Caring for someone with cancer is its own kind of hard, especially when it's a parent, and often when the outcome is uncertain. This is a safe, non judgemental space for you, not just the person you're caring for.

Our time together can be in person in Whangārei, or online anywhere in New Zealand. We can talk through and find a way to cope with your mixed emotions. If you're in Northland, Cancer Society Northland also funds three sessions with me.

What We Work Through

Carer guilt. Burnout. The sense that your own struggle doesn't count next to what the patient is going through. Grief for what's coming, even before it comes. Trying to navigate your own emotions while holding space for someone else, often at the cost of your own identity outside caregiving.

It's common to feel like your feelings should come second, or that you shouldn't need help when someone else is the one who's sick. That's not true. Caring for someone is hard in its own right, so you deserve your own support.
What cancer counselling covers

“I feel heard and not judged”

How counselling for cancer looks

What Cancer Counselling Sessions Look Like for a Carer

The same process applies as for patients: a brief introductory call first, then a client agreement, some background questions about your situation. From there, our 55 minute sessions are led by you, at your pace, with a follow-up email after each one to help keep track of where we're at.

Confidentiality

"Everything you share with me stays confidential. The only exception is if I believe your life or health is at risk, or that you or someone else may be at risk of harm; then I'd speak with my supervisor before taking any action, and where possible, I'd let you know and talk it through with you first."
Carers need counselling too

You're Allowed to Need This Too

Seeking support isn't selfish, and it doesn't take anything away from the person you're caring for. If anything, it helps you keep showing up for them, so get in touch today.

Frequently Asked Questions

Answers to help you feel informed and supported.

Yes. Cancer Society Northland funds three sessions for carers, as well as patients living in the region.

No. It's one of the most common things carers tell me. Everyone says "let me know if you need anything," but disappears when you actually ask. That resentment is valid, and it's something we can work through.

Yes. Caring for someone with cancer can be overwhelming, and you deserve your own support; you don't need permission to need help.

No, these sessions are just for you. We have 55-minutes dedicated to working on helping you cope with your daily challenges.

That's completely fine. Some sessions are practical, some are just about being heard — both are a good use of your time. I give you the tools to cope.

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